How do you navigate the constant pressure of having to prove your worth in a system that doesn't recognize you?

Many of us feel the weight of constantly having to prove our worth in a system that often overlooks our contributions and experiences. It can be exhausting and disheartening, especially when we know our value but struggle to have that recognized by others. Living with Other hukou status, we face unique challenges that can amplify these feelings. One thing that has helped me navigate this pressure is finding ways to celebrate my own achievements, no matter how small they may seem. It’s easy to get caught up in the external validation or the lack thereof, but taking time to acknowledge our own progress is crucial. Whether it's keeping a journal of our successes or sharing them with a supportive friend, these moments can help remind us of our worth beyond what society may recognize. Another approach that many of us find helpful is connecting with others who share similar experiences. Finding even one person who understands the intricacies of having Other hukou status can be a game-changer. I connected with someone nearby, and we started meeting regularly to talk about our experiences and frustrations. Just having that space to vent and share has made the pressure feel a little lighter. We also need to remember that our worth isn't defined by how others perceive us. Engaging in activities that reflect our interests and passions can help us cultivate a sense of identity that is independent of external validation. For instance, volunteering or pursuing hobbies can provide fulfillment and a sense of community, giving us a space to shine without the pressure of proving ourselves to a system that doesn’t always see us. Anyone else navigating this feeling of needing to prove your worth? Sometimes just connecting with someone who truly understands makes all the difference. What strategies have you found helpful?